All in Adoption
The prevailing narrative in our culture has been that adoption is a win/win/win for adoptees, adoptive parents, and birth/first family members. But this hasn’t been accurate or fair.
Children who exhibit conduct or behavior problems, often acting angry, aggressive, resentful or spiteful, deliberately annoying, or blaming, either melting down or acting out, can challenge even the most patient parent. How do you deal with the behavior and shape and transform it?
Transracially adoptive families often navigate unexpected attention and questions from others. Some of these approaches are innocent and well-intended, but some are not. Handling sudden inquiries is one of many skills transracially adoptive families need to develop. Enlisting your child in problem-solving helps them trust their “gut”, and reassures that they are in charge of their story.
Current events like the Olympics offer countless opportunities to examine who is centered in adoptive stories in the media. Learn more about adoptive parent heroism and the “willingness to adopt.”