EP28: Guiding Your Child Through Their Fears Of Random School Based Violence
Today's conversation is in response to the recent acts of gun violence in the United States, specifically the Robb Elementary School shooting in Uvalde, Texas. Entire communities are left on edge following last week's horrific shooting. It is important to help children feel safe in the face of unfathomable danger. Sadly, the need for these conversations is increasing and these conversations are often difficult for parents and kids alike.
Dr. Laura Anderson provides step by step scripts for how to talk to kids about the potential of violence in school, how to manage their fears, and how to approach conversation about events out of our control.
Step By Step Plan For Tough Conversations:
Plan ahead of time to find a quiet time to talk
Practice what you are going to say
Ask questions
Discuss safety plans in times of emergency
Point out a contact at school to reach out to if your child ever feels unsafe
Name your feelings and model healthy coping mechanisms
Concrete advocacy steps to move forward
What You Will Learn:
How to prepare for tough conversations
Language that is especially helpful in these situations
Step by step scripts for conversations with your child
Healthy coping strategies for you and your child
Next steps to continue healthy habits beyond the initial conversation