Loving an Amazing Child Whose Behaviors Can Be Hard to Like
Parenting children with challenging behaviors can be quite a task, but it's crucial to keep a positive outlook and focus on their strengths. Praising them for their efforts and accomplishments can go a long way in boosting their confidence and self-esteem. Creating fun games and activities that involve listening and following directions can also be helpful. These activities can be both educational and fun, making it easier for children to engage and stay motivated. Remember, parenting is a journey, and every child is unique. With patience, love, and understanding, we can help our children grow into confident and capable individuals.
As a parent, it can be challenging to keep up with the high energy levels required to create engaging games and activities for your children. However, it's important to remember that setting a daily routine can be incredibly helpful in keeping behavioral issues at bay. By establishing a consistent schedule, you can create a sense of structure and stability for your children, which can help keep them focused and listening. So don't be afraid to put in a little extra effort upfront - the rewards will be well worth it in the long run!
It can feel lonely when your child is struggling. At the end of the day you don't get a prize for being the most tired parent - ask for help, find community. The burden of motherhood is eased a lot when you're not alone.
Dr. Laura Anderson invited Jessica Secrest to share her experience and tools for loving an amazing child whose behaviors can be hard to like.
Jessica Secrest is a mom of 2, ages 4.5 and 3. Her eldest child was diagnosed with ADHD in 2023 and she shares tips, strategies, and struggles that come with caring for a neurodivergent child. She is an advocate for Body Positivity and works to show her kids that you can be happy no matter your size. Jessica is a big believer in finding your village in motherhood and shares her motherhood journey with her best friend Emily. She is known for sharing their childcare swap arrangements, expressing the importance of leaning on your village and taking time to spend with your spouse when you can.
What You Will Learn:
It takes a village
Reinforcement to counteract the negative
Don't give up - there will be trial and error, but you will find something that works for you
Tips for getting your child to listen and hear what you say
Listen to the full podcast here.
Thank you for connecting,
Dr. Laura Anderson
Dr. Laura S. Anderson specializes in educating and supporting families, as well as clinicians who support transracial adoptive families, across the globe to overcome barriers, derive strength from their differences, and thrive. She is a dynamic advocate for multiracial families and a strong advocate for supporting "third culture" children and families who may need support with the stressors associated with living out of their countries of origin and kids navigating gender and diversity.
Contact Dr. Anderson here.
